Date
Sunday
Jul
20

July 20

Toss Away the “Could Haves” and “Should Haves” Day

Let go of regrets this Toss Away the "Could Haves" and "Should Haves" Day - step into the future and embrace unlimited potential!

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Day

Introduction

Get ready to let go of your past and step into a future full of endless potential on Toss Away the “Could Haves” and “Should Haves” Day this July 20! This unique and uplifting holiday encourages us to let go of regrets and no longer dwell on past mistakes. After all, there's no use crying over spilled milk. Founded by motivational author, Martha J. Ross-Rodgers, this day is a wonderful opportunity to free oneself from the weight of past 'what-ifs' and instead focus on the possibilities that lie ahead. So, embrace this day and allow yourself to soar towards an exciting future!

Toss Away the “Could Haves” and “Should Haves” Day Timeline

1990
Martha J. Ross-Rodgers' Inspiration
Motivational author Martha J. Ross-Rodgers began to conceive the concept of a day dedicated to releasing regrets and 'what-ifs'.
1992
First Imprint of Concept
The first inklings of Toss Away the "Could Haves" and "Should Haves" Day appear in Ross-Rodgers' motivational seminars.
1998
Holiday Establishment
Toss Away the "Could Haves" and "Should Haves" Day was officially established by Martha J. Ross-Rodgers to encourage people to let go of regrets.
2001
Local Recognition
The holiday started to gain recognition within self-help circles and local communities throughout the United States.
2010
Holiday Goes Online
With the rise of the internet and social media, Toss Away the "Could Haves" and "Should Haves" Day began to gain widespread online recognition.
2020
Global Recognition
Thanks to the universal appeal of its message and global reach of digital platforms, the holiday is now celebrated by people all around the world.

How to Celebrate Toss Away the “Could Haves” and “Should Haves” Day

1

Write and release

Jot down all your “could haves” and “should haves” on a piece of paper. Once you’ve acknowledged them, burn the paper or tear it up and let it go. This is a powerful symbol of letting go of the past and embracing the future.

2

Meditate

Spend time in silence and mindfulness, focusing on the present moment. The practice of meditation can help you let go of past regrets and anxieties about the future and will empower you to live in the here and now.

3

Start a gratitude journal

Rather than focusing on regrets, concentrate on all the good things in your life. Write down at least one thing for which you are grateful each day. This helps to focus on the positive aspects of life and helps you to move on from past regrets.

4

Plan future actions

Turn "could haves" and "should haves" into actionable goals. Create a list of things you want to accomplish or experiences you want to have, and make plans to achieve them. This will help you focus your energy on the future rather than dwelling on the past.

5

Practice self-forgiveness

Remember that everyone makes mistakes and sometimes things are beyond our control. Use this day to forgive yourself for any perceived past mistakes and failures. By practicing self-forgiveness, you can let go of regrets and open up to future possibilities.

Why Toss Away the “Could Haves” and “Should Haves” Day is Important

A

It Encourages Letting Go of Regrets

"Toss Away the 'Could Haves' and 'Should Haves' Day" allows us to free ourselves from the shackles of past missteps and regrets. It's a day dedicated to promoting personal growth and put a full stop to laments about missed opportunities and errors.

B

It Elevates Positivity and Gratitude

Taking part in this day helps us shift focus from past disappointments and look towards the beauty of the present moment and the potential of the future. This fosters positive thinking and facilitates the practice of gratitude, counting our blessings rather than dwelling on past regrets.

C

It Promotes Future Goals and Aspirations

This unique day inspires us to convert our "could haves" and "should haves" into future goals. It encourages us to shift our energy towards worthy aspirations and challenges us to envision and create a roadmap for achieving future success, propelling us towards a meaningful and fulfilling life.